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Sunday, September 8, 2013

Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

Thank you, IFB for featuring a post of mine again this week!

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What is Fashion Blogging anyway?

Are we supposed to want to go to fashion week? It's in our blood to want to know the latest and greatest fashion trends. Do we muse about high fashion or stay grounded in everyday style? Fashion blogging covers a vast array of topics all relating to that essential need to get dressed. Whether you're in the trenches at fashion week, following from home, or couldn't care less, we're all still fashion bloggers to the core. Anyway... We had a GREAT round of submissions this week. Hey, summer's over, today's the first official day of 'Fashion Month' so we're all back to work. Fall fashion starts to hit the streets and our computer screens, so it's all exciting stuff!

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup

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Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Featured in Links à la Mode

I'd like to Thank IFB for including one of my posts in this week's Links à la Mode. See the full feature below.

lalam0829

Superficial on the Surface

Sometimes I get mad when people assume if you like fashion, you're automatically dumb or superficial. Then at the same time, I love looking at pretty pictures and dressing up... it's an escape and a passion all at the same time. Obsessing over fashion doesn't mean however, there's nothing going on in our brains! This week, we have a great mix of the tougher questions in fashion right along with the tips and tricks that enable our superficial exterior (that's not so superficial.... or is it?)

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup


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Sunday, August 18, 2013

Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

Thanks to IFB for featuring me again in their Links à la Mode post. See the full post below.

lalam0815

Naughty Nineties

It was Halloween in 1988, I decided to dress up as a Hippie. A woman said something I have never forgotten... "You know you're getting old when kids start dressing up like you did as a teenager." Well, this is the year it's really happening to me. As someone who loved alternative chic in the 90's (a little grunge, a little goth, a little punk, a little ska) it's nice to see some of those styles "coming back" for nostalgia if not for anything else. While, I personally will take a seat back, having already lived it before, this week's links have all kinds of 90's themes to them. From Michelle Williams (hey Dawson's Creek hit in '99) to St. Laurent's grunge inspired collection, to the 10 Alternative Fashion blogs to watch, it's there, so just click!

Links à la Mode: August 15

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Sunday, August 4, 2013

Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

I'm honored to be featured again in IFB's Links à la Mode this week. Find the link to my post on tie-dying cutoff below (if you haven't seen it already) and check out some of the other featured posts while you're at it.

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"But if fashion were easy, wouldn't everybody look great?" ~Tim Gunn
I usually open with a title for Links à la Mode.. but this week, it's a quote found in one of our links. Tim Gunn did say it best, if fashion were EASY, everyone would look great! But alas it's not. It's tricky, specific, fickle, and highly personal. We all spend our entire lives getting dressed, but how many truly have style? This week we have a mix of the things you need to find your own personal way to fashion. So grab your cuppa and read these links!

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

IFB Asks: What's Your Signature Color?

The latest IFB Project asks, "what's your signature color?" and, while I don't think I could ever actually use the phrase "signature color" without feeling pretentious, it's an easy question for me to answer. Navy is the foundation on which my wardrobe rests.

This didn't happen intentionally. I never chose navy so much as it chose me. All I know is that one day I looked around I noticed that navy was my color.

When it came time to choose what stones would compliment the diamond in my engagement ring, I knew I wanted sapphires, not just to honor my mother (they're her birthstone) but also because navy seemed like a color I wouldn't tire of wearing every day for the rest of my life.

Navy is forever.

Outfit - Tucker for Target ruffled back dress, vintage gold clutch, Downton Abbey hair
Save the Date Outfit: Anthropologie horse and polkadot print dress "Petaluma Peep Hem Dress", hand-me-sown kicks, Modcloth leather pouch belt, Jewelmint leather cuff with silver horse
Spring Sunset outfit: striped mariner anchor dress from J.Crew, altered vintage denim vest, brown boots, skinny jeans, wide-brimmed wool hat - Anthropologie "sweaterknit rancher"
La Marinière outfit: marinière striped top, jeans, Jeffrey Campbell Lita booties, sparkly suede clutch, Noir jewelry dinosaur bone rib cage cuff bracelet, J.Crew pavé cable link bracelet, arty ring, neon bangle
Double dots outfit: polkadot skirt from J. Crew Factory, polkadot top from H&M, thrifted belt, thrifted espadrilles, Anne Boleyn necklace made by me

Once, when friend told me she had no time for navy -- why did it need to exist, other than to trick her into accidentally wearing one navy sock and one black sock? -- I suddenly felt overcome with incredulous defensiveness. Why did black need to exist? What made it so great anyway, huh?

4th of July Outfit: Nautical dress with rope belt from Target, modcloth red and white striped peep-toe shoes, pavé cable bracelet from J.Crew, etc.
Morning Glory outfit: AG polkadot Stevie ankle jeans from Anthropologie, black Converse lowtop sneakers, sleveless button-down chambray shirt, cropped gray sweatshirt from Stylemint
Easter outfit: SIlver flats, mustard tights, Missoni for Target chevron dress, dusty rose felt cloche

While navy is a good and practical neutral that can, despite frequent arguments to the contrary, be worn with black (ask Yve Saint Laurent if you don't believe me), my love for it extends beyond the practical and into fantasy. Two years ago, I wrote in an installment of my retired feature "Color Theory," that navy is "a bit prep school, it's a bit sailor. It's so French and yet so all American."

There's the practicality of navy, of course. There's the denim and the chambray and the perfect wool peacoat. But the fantasy of Navy is what makes me come back to it over and over again.

Pattern outfit: Target teal pattern dress with lattice back, rainbow-leather huaraches, patterned belt, straw bag
Sunset and structure outfit: Peter-Pan-collar dress, floral flats, pavé cable bracelet, etc.
Meet Hazel outfit: ruffled floral dress, vintage cape-cut plaid jacket, knee socks, Wanted brown leather oxfords
Alice outfit: rosebud dress, grayscale color-block over-the-knee socks, flatforms, cropped paper-thin cashmere sweater from Styemint,
Polkadot peplum outfit: polkadot peplum top, Levi's Made and Crafted white jeans, Miss Trish for Target pearl and coral sandals, knotted pearls

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Sunday, July 7, 2013

Video Tutorial Featured in IFB's "Links à la Mode"

I'm honored to have a post featured once again in IFB's "Links à la Mode." See the full feature below.

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Free To Be Me

Today is a national holiday here, Independence Day. Common themes celebrated, among hot dogs and fireworks are notions of freedom.. but what does that freedom mean if not free to be ones self? This week we have a great array of posts that reflect the freedom to be as you are, whether it be wearing a crop top in your 40's , dissecting the shoes of women's right's hero Wendy Davis, or discussing the oft not discussed issue of the rise in plastic surgery for men. Of course we also have all the goodies you'd expect from a fashion roundup, so relax today and read these links!

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup

        
  1. All Things Kate: Fashion Flashback: Christian Dior
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  3. Anything You Can Buy: Store Credit Cards: Savers or Enablers?
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  5. Attire Club: Discussions On Men’s Plastic Surgery
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  7. DIY Doyenne: 12 Simple Ways to Build Engaged Blog Traffic
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  9. DressCode: HighFashion: The 10 Definite Mens Must Haves in Summer 2013
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  11. Fashion is Evolution: DIY Mui Mui-inspired glitter shoe video tutorial
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  13. Fashion Thrill: The Mystery of Chanel No. 5
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  15. Fashstash: Like a Maharajah | Jeetinder Sandhu
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  17. I Can Style U: What Are Men Really Wearing This Summer?
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  19. Inspirations & Celebrations: Best Shorts For Your Body - Summer Style Guide
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  21. Lover of Clothes: The Other Side of Blogging
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  23. Not Dressed as a Lamb: How To Embrace The Crop Top Trend In Your Forties
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  25. Rose & Pine: Summer Skincare Tips & Summer Skin Essentials
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  27. Sobbing on Fifth: The Trend: Match Your Mani to Your Clutch
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  29. Sophisticated Lace: The Shoes of a Female Hero
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  31. Style Bizarre:3 Ways to Accessorize your Swimsuit
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  33. Style Convict: 4TH OF JULY STYLE GUIDE
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  35. The Photogramps: How to Wear Tropical Print
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  37. Un Femme d'un Certian Age: Style Crushes: What They Can Teach Us
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  39. We Are Ready Made: TOO MUCH CONTROL?

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Sunday, June 16, 2013

Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

I'm honored to have been featured in IFB's Links à la Mode once again, and especially to have my photo featured (on the far right). If you missed my post about my wedding DIY party, check it out below, and check out some of the other featured posts while you're at it. 

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Action/Reaction

One of the things I love the most about blogging is that there are both actions and reactions in content. Action: making, creating, styling. Reaction: commentary, reviewing, dissecting. It satisfies both the heady space fashion can sometimes occupy, as well as occupying our two little hands. This week we have a great combination of things you can do and things to think about, and heck a couple of things you can put on your summer wishlist.

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup

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Sunday, June 9, 2013

Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

I've been featured again in IFB's Links à la Mode. See the whole story below.

lalam0606

Primping All Proper

Getting ready for summer is no easy task. We're baring more skin, looking more "natural" and working with less layers and actual clothes to achieve that perfect style. So what do we do to make sure we're pulled together? Primp up! Between the hair care, pedicures (and what to do if you're to busy to get that done), getting that perfect braid and that perfect make up for your "natural look" without spending a fortune there's a lot to do! This week's roundup has a good mix of where to get all your beauty needs, and where to find the perfect accessories to go with that simple summer dress!

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup

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Saturday, May 4, 2013

Bullying Post Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

Last week, I wrote this post about Get Off My Internets and, more broadly, about the differences between constructive criticism and bullying in the blogging community. The post was near and dear to my heart, and I was quite proud of it. I felt that I had a unique opinion that I wasn't seeing expressed in the discussions surrounding GOMI either on IFB or elsewhere. I don't usually use this blog as a platform for discussions about the blogging community, but I felt that this was a piece I needed to write. I took the time I needed to organize my thoughts and layout my argument, and then I posted it, excited and nervous about the response. 

I'm really pleased to say that the response has been large and almost universally positive. It's been really lovely to read your comments and to see you post links to my post on Twitter. Thank you so much for supporting me, sharing my post with others, and engaging in what I believe to be a very important conversation for our community.

This week, IFB featured my post as a part of their Links à la Mode weekly roundup. See the other featured posts below.

Thanks again!

Links à la Mode

Beauty Positive

Real beauty comes from within. It's an old saying, and generally I find it to be true. Beautiful people have positive souls. But ... it never hurts to have good makeup and style to make your inner beauty shine. This week we have a great mix of beautifying tips on several levels to bring out the very best in you. From positive fashion quotes, owning your age & style, to nixing online bullying in the fashion community... body positive thinking and actual beauty tips galore. As a beauty junkie, I was delighted to read all the beauty tips! Of course, we have loads of style tips to get you started for the coming summer season!

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup: May 2nd

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Friday, April 26, 2013

Beyond Constructive: "Get Off My Internets" and the Phenomenon of Bullying in the Blogging Community

Beyond Constructive

Last week, I checked out Get Off My Internets for the first time. I'd heard about the site before (its tabloid-ish reputation proceeded it), but it never sounded like it was up my alley. (Spoiler alert: it's not!) However, after reading this interview IFB did with a GOMI contributor, I wondered if I hadn't rushed to judgement. 

The contributor, Lancelle was insistent that GOMI is a platform for "constructive criticism" rather than personal attacks: "I think that 50% of readers on GOMI legitimately hate a few GOMI targets, but the other 50% just like having a forum to express constructive criticism."

She also said that a lot of former "targets" (her word, not mine) haven't been "featured" (that's one way of putting it!) in a while because they took note of the criticism and made positive changes. "A few have even thanked GOMI for pointing out their problematic posts or habits," she said.

All this was very convincing, and I was curious what all that constructive criticism looked like, so I popped over. The main page of GOMI is a blog that's difficult to peruse. It has no visible archive or even tags. It soon became clear to me that the forums, not the blog, are the star of the show.  

What I found in those forums was a deep dark hole. 

You know those holes the internet has where you fall in and don't emerge for a few hours at least? Well this is like that. But it's not the lovely interconnected rabbit hole of knowledge that is Wikipedia. Instead it's a deep, dank, smelly hole. Once I emerged, I was in a bad mood for the rest of the day; it just put me in a funk. And I haven't gone near it since for fear of falling in again. 
Let me set the record straight. GOMI forums are not 50% constructive criticism. They are less than 1% that if any at all. What they are instead is a free-for-all of cyber bullying. Let's call GOMI what it is: a burn book.
Here I want to take a moment to clarify terms. Last year, after Dan Savage was accused of bullying Christians by saying that there is "bullshit" in the Bible, an article in the Economist, written by J.F. defined bullying as "the strong picking on the weak, not the other way around (the other way around is satire)."

It may seem to some that bloggers, the ones with a huge platform and a huge audience, are the strong, while lowly forum posters are the weak, but I'd argue that anonymity makes all the difference here. Bloggers post personal information, photos, and feelings on the internet for all to see. We make ourselves vulnerable to our readers, and the more popular a blog is, the more vulnerable the blogger becomes. Forum posters on the other hand, rarely even share their real first names.

Anonymity is also what makes cyber bullying different (and, in my opinion, worse) than the classic schoolyard bullying most of us grew up with. When I started to hear the term "cyber bullying" a few years ago, it annoyed me. As linguist Geoff Nunberg points out here, 
We spent the 1990s tacking "virtual" and "cyber" onto the names of what seemed like new kinds of things. Then we spent the next [decade] taking the prefixes off again, as we realized that the new things were fundamentally the same as the old ones. "I have to get some e-money from the virtual bank so I can play cyber-poker" -- that sounds so 1997.
I thought "cyber-bullying" was the same. Wasn't it just like regular bullying? But, in light of recent events, I've realized that it's different. The anonymity makes it different. People say harsher things in forums than they would ever say to a person's face. In fact, lots of posters claimed to have met various targets in real life but never mentioned doling out any of their "constructive criticism" directly to the blogger during these face-to-face encounters.

Now that I've clarified terms, let me lay out my argument for why GOMI forums are not, as they claim, constructive. 

First of all, one would think that a fair platform meant for the purposes of debate and constructive criticism would have forums structured around questions like Does So-and-So Seam Disingenuous to You? or What Bloggers Don't Disclose C/O Products Well Enough? But most of the threads on GOMI are each titled simply with a blogger's name. Implied in the title, "Jane Doe of Jane's Closet" is "This is the thread where we talk about how much we hate Jane Doe." 

There is not at atmosphere of debate in these threads, and one gets the feeling that any attempt at defending the blogger in question would be unwelcome. In fact, I saw no such defense in my hours of perusing the forums. 

No, these threads are not debates, but instead each is a page in one giant burn book, a free-for-all of personal attacks, name calling, and speculation. 

The attacks are often over tiny, strangely specific things like personal idiosyncrasies. One blogger was repeatedly criticized for overusing the word "peek" as in "Thanks for taking a peek at my new space!" One poster joked that every time this blogger says "peek" she wants to "smack that girl in the face with a shovel." 

The name calling is eerily reminiscent of schoolyard bullying, where kids found some unflattering word that rhymed with the bullied kid's name. One blogger named Jessica is routinely referred to as "Messica," "Messy," or simply "Mess."

As for the speculation, it's just flagrant! In one forum, several posters speculate that a blogger's husband only married her for the bump to his career that her blog must have given. They just can't imagine another human being might be capable of actually loving this women whom they hate so much, nevermind the thousands of readers who do love her. 

Among all the name calling and threats of violence, one blogger was held up, admired, and never criticized: Blair Eadie of Atlantic-Pacific. Lancelle even cited Atlantic-Pacific in her interview with IFB as an example of a blog that she likes, "[Blair Eadie] deserves all the hype she gets because she dresses well and takes photos of what she wears. The end."

I love Blair Eadie's style too. In fact, I think she's in a league of her own style wise. But if I had one complaint about her blog or if I were asked to give constructive criticism about it, I would say that I wish she actually wrote something -- anything -- besides outfit credits. 

Blair doesn't share personal details of her life, ergo she's not an easy target for GOMI. Her blog is literally all photos (good photos) of outfits (amazing outfits) so there's not much to criticize. 

If that's how she wants to run her blog, that's fine. But I don't think an images-and-outfit-credits-only format should be held up as the only acceptable way to write a blog. Bloggers who share opinions, feelings, and snippets of their personal lives are taking a bigger risk, and that should be encouraged, not punished.

The thing that makes blogging such a unique and special platform, and I'd argue one of its biggest appeals to readers (or, at least, to me as a reader) is all the personal stuff. When bloggers share their personality, their personal style, and their opinions; when they make themselves vulnerable, that's where the magic happens. I hate to see that magic discouraged by a forum full of haters. 

Strangely, while bloggers who write in a casual voice and share details from their personal lives are targeted by GOMI forum posters, bloggers who write in a more professional voice are also targeted. They get called "fake."

The more polished and profession a blog is, the more GOMI forum posters label the blogger as "fake" and criticize her for "trying to be perfect all the time." You really can't win. Unless you're off-the-charts stylish and beautiful (but silent) Blair Eadie. 

It's fine to dislike some blogs, and it's fine to have valid criticisms (like the criticism of GOMI I'm sharing right here in this post), but GOMI has gone so far beyond that. I would never argue that critical opinions shouldn't have a space on the internet or anywhere else, but I don't think that means we have to make a place for bullying in our community.



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Sunday, April 21, 2013

FIE Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode

Last week, I wrote a very special and personal post about creative motivation and my recent fears and achievements in the creativity department. I was very honored to learn, this week, that it's been featured in IFB's Links à la Mode. 

I'm in good company, featured along side some really interesting pieces, so much sure to check those out, and give my piece a look if you haven't seen it already. 

Merci beaucoup, cheris!

lalam418

World Click

Does it matter where you blog from? I say this as I've lived in four cities during my blogging career, and to tell the truth, it kind of does, but it also kind of doesn't. This week Style Bizarre asks that question to a few bloggers about their experiences with blogging and location. We also travel around to Australia to check out their MBFW, how Man Repeller got us thinking about Japan (again), about how female politicians across the globe relate to fashion (should they?) and where you can get globally conscious accessories. As always it's a mixed bag, so enjoy!

Links à la Mode: April 18th    

  1. Anna Lou Elliott: 3 ways to wear white: for day, night and work 
  2. Attire Club: What We Can Learn From Superheroes
  3. Cosmolawitan: Dove: Empowering Women With Its Ad Campaigns
  4. Dressed Up on a Cloudy Day: How to Combine Colors : Analogous Colors
  5. Fashion is Evolution: 4 Tips for Pushing Yourself to Achieve Your Creative Goals
  6. Fashion Moriarty: Are female politicians reduced to what they wear?
  7. Hey Mishka: 5 Globally Conscious Festive Accessories For Summer
  8. HH Designs: Glamping: My Overall Lack of Roughing It...
  9. Lara Lizard: Test : Are you the cutest creature of the social media?
  10. Incognito: On how Man Repeller got me thinking about fashion in Japan
  11. Modestelle: Mercedes Benz Australia Review 2013-2014
  12. Mis Papelicos: My 6 Easy Steps to Happiness
  13. Nothing to wear: The Rookie Department: Hair Styling For Beginners
  14. Runway to Style: 7 Style Guidelines To Look Your Best at Prom and More
  15. Style Bizarre: Blogging: How important is your location? 
  16. The Curatorial: Vale Jewelry: Algorithms and Delicate Jewelry  
  17. Undercover Dress Up: Interview with lolita icon Emilka P.  
  18. We Are Ready Made: Irreverent Youth    
  19. Wild Beauty World: War Paint
  20. Youth Savage: Fashion Blogging vs. the World

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Sunday, April 14, 2013

"Adventures in Free-lensing" Featured in IFB's "Links à la Mode" Roundup

I'm really honored to be featured again in IFB's weekly "Links à la Mode" roundup. Check out 
the whole post below.

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Picture Perfect

Whether it be styling the right outfit, looking good in glasses, or finding treasures in your closet, ultimately as fashion bloggers we share our fashion story. Through words or through photography, this roundup takes a closer look at making life more beautiful, fashion icons like Lilly Pulitzer who passed away over the weekend, Coco Chanel and Elsa Schiaparelli.. and the downward spiral of the house of Saint Laurent. What are we going to do to keep the world beautiful? Sustainable fashion and shopping our closets? And how will we document it.. there are fantastic photo tutorials in the mix to. Enjoy!

Links à la Mode: The IFB Weekly Roundup, April 11th



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Sunday, September 16, 2012

Featured in IFB's Links à la Mode


Thank you so much, IFB, for featuring Fashion is Evolution two weeks in a row! Also, my photo has never been used in the header before, so seeing it was really cool and meant a lot. 

LINKS À LA MODE: THE IFB WEEKLY ROUND UP: September 13th


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Sunday, September 9, 2012

I'm featured in IFB's Links à la Mode this week

I'd like to thanks IFB for the honor and suggest that you check out all the featured posts below.

 

LINKS À LA MODE: THE IFB WEEKLY ROUND UP: September 6th

 
  • Broke with Designer Taste: Easy Statement Necklace DIY
  • Cashmere and Crimson: Denim Blue Me Away
  • Fashion is Evolution: What I Wore Today
  • Fashstash: The Stylish Sikh
  • Fetishist’s Notes: Tie Dye DIY Tutorial
  • Gin Addict: Details of the Week
  • Kelly Dillon: Ocean Blue
  • La Dulcie Vita: The New Florals: Tapestry
  • Life’s Too Short to Wear Bad Clothes: 20120831
  • Margaret Rose: The Thing About Versailles
  • My Vintage Curves: Ladylike Stripes
  • Pretty Ugly: Faking Tallness 101
  • Primped and Primed: MBFFS: Backstage
  • Sugar and Spice: DIY Beauty Recipes
  • Stiletto Beats: A bit of EJC: Gypsy Princess
  • Style Quandry: Not So Moody Blues
  • The Penny Rose: Fall Fashion – Cameron Marks
  • The Urban Lioness: Week 2 on Campus
  • Tinasylvia: Floral and Chiffon Love
  • Travelling Fashion: One Pair of Leather Pants Four Ways
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    Sunday, June 10, 2012

    "Color Theory: White" featured on IFB


    I'm honored to be featured again in IFB's "Links à la Mode." Check out the full collection of links below.






    International Love



    Edited By Taylor Davies


    Perhaps the greatest thing about the IFB community is our diversity. We bring together bloggers from all over the globe, who want to come together and share and learn and talk about fashion! This week's Links a la Mode selections represent a slice of just how far and wide our bloggers stretch across the world. We have a trend report from Japan, online law and legislation from the UK, a Finnish brand debut in Hong Kong, and more. From the Olympics to the Jubilee, and 3 interviews with stylists and costumers - this really is a stellar collection of links for the week. Enjoy!


     

    LINKS À LA MODE: THE IFB WEEKLY ROUND UP: JUNE 7TH



     






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